How to be the best example for your children?

Introduction:

Who are children ? The child is the natural offspring of the partner. Although the child physically belongs to one gender. But the child merges with the quality of both parents . A child is a person who lacks maturity . They follow what their parents do . On the other hand, it can be said that the child is like our shadow . But how can we be the best example ?

Every child is born without knowing anything . But the child will be influenced by what he learned in the womb . According to the Quran and science , it is proven that the growth of the child starts from the 4th month . So, during this period , doctors advise pregnant women to be very careful . Because this month any accident will lead to miscarriage or childbirth .

Similarly, during this period , the mother can do various jobs . Doctors encourage them to engage in any activity . So many mothers are involved in swimming lessons , learning something new , etc.

Do you want to be a role model ?

The first step to the best education .

As a mother, if you want your son or daughter to be pious, you can follow it .

• Pray as much as you can and on time .
• If you can, bow for a long time .
• Read the Quran regularly .
• Avoid watching movies that do not convey any morals to you .
• Avoid listening to very loud music .
• Watch movies that teach morals because it will affect you and your child .
• Listen to nasheeds and bayans .
• Try to give as much as you can to charity .
• Tilva of Quran is very important .
• Control your character .
• Do not gossip or gossip .
• Be socially useful to others .
• Do as much as dhikr .
• Use of false language never .
• Make sure that even your husband does not use any foul language .
• Kindness and patience should be shown .
• Do not raise your voice and fight .
• Recite the daily duas aloud .
• Avoid mobile phones and the evils of worldly life .
• Read as many books as you can .
• Be close to your husband .
• Once , he comes home to pray .
• Always be happy , make your husband laugh and smile at everyone .
• Visit Masjids .
• Memorize verses from the Holy Quran .
• Memorize the names of Allah .
• Also learn hadiths and rabanas by heart .

Can I be the best example ?

Second step .

When a child is born, say Adan . Name the newborn with a very good name . Be careful that the name has a good meaning . Avoid trendy names . Because even names influence the child's behavior .

Things you need to do

• It is mentioned in one of the hadiths that are taught to children up to 7 years old. So, until the age of 7 , teach your child as much as you can . Because it is the age where the child's memory is very sharp and intelligence . It is a period where the child will learn more and it will remain permanent .
• Motivate your child to learn and be friendly with others .
• Explore the world for your child, teach your child that Allah created this and that .
• Make sure that you feed your child properly .
• Teach your child daily duas .
• Download only the stories of the prophets and related to your child's education .
• Surround your child with your relationships as well .
• Teach your child both the good and the bad of this world .
• If the fathers are at home , be sure to take your child to the mosque .
• It is recommended that both parents pray in front of their children .
• Parents should teach the Quran .
• Try to explain one hadith a day .
• Things you should not do .
• Do not cross the border in front of your children .
• Although the world is full of fitna , do not keep your child imprisoned at home .
• If your child is very restless and naughty, never give them your cell phones .
• Never make your child think that you are higher than God .
• Avoid watching TV and listening to music in front of your child .
• Don't get what your child asks after watching online videos .
• Moreover, never fight in front of your child .
• Likewise, don't force your child to be affectionate only toward the single parent .
• Do not discourage your relationship in front of your child .

Jazakallah Khairan.