Ramadan with little Muslims

 Ramadan with little Muslims

While researching for this article, I spoke with several people. As a new mom, I needed that information for myself as it pertains to this article . A friend who teaches parenting classes sarcastically mentioned how parents should apply for a license to have children . Really? Funny ? Stop and think, and it will give a deeper understanding of this joke . Giving birth to a child , feeding and dressing him is not considered to be raising him , there is much more that is often neglected .Children's rights over their parents are much more than that, and since they are unable to claim themmainly due to ignorance , parents do not bother to recognize them responsibly  . Educate yourself , investigate deeper , never stop learning .

A child's rights to their parents come from before they are even born , and this is of paramount importance that cannot be taken lightly in any way.

Rights before birth

· Choice

of fair wife Fair wife spells fair mother. A woman who will be most vigilant in seeing that her children are raised and cared for according to the standards set by Allah and His Prophet. Although a person has a great responsibility to think seriously about his future generations; to a generation of Islam.

It was narrated from Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said. "her wealth , her lineage , her beauty and religious devotion . Marry one who is faithful to the religion , let your hands be dusted (i.e., you may prosper ).” ( Al-Bukhari )

I want to note that prosperity here does not refer to wealth in monetary terms ; it suggests something much more valuable than that . It is about a life and a time that can please Allah in this world and the Hereafter. . It also applies to our children, those who are brought up in the Islamic style , those who love and respect their parents , contribute significantly to society , stand for truth and justice and be sadka-e-jariah after the death of a parent . All that, without a doubt, rests on their most elementary education, which is in the hands of a woman !

Furthermore, the Messenger of Allah , may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said : "On death , a person's deeds will ( definitely ) cease except for three deeds . This is how the Holy Qur'an views this act of homosexuality. a continuing charitable foundation , endowment or goodwill ; knowledge is left for people to use ; and a pious righteous and God-fearing child who constantly prays to Allah , the Almighty , for the souls of his parents . (Muslim)

Birthrights

· Performing the Sunnah of Tahnek

Al-Nawawi said : "Scientists agree that bathing with dates after the birth of a child is mandatory. ; if this is not possible, then use similar sweets . The dates should be chewed until they become soft enough to swallow , then the child's mouth should be opened and a small portion of the dates should be placed in his mouth.

Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) is reported to have said. Abu Talha's son was sick . Abu Talha went out, and the child died , and when Abu Talha returned, he said , "What happened to my son ? 

· Giving him a good name .

Giving your child a desired name is also part of his rights .

It was narrated from Naafi that Ibn Umar said : The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said. "Abd-Allah and Abd al-Rahman are the most beloved of your names to Allah." There are names that are forbidden , there are names that are undesirable , and then there are names that are desirable . Parents should give more importance to the meaning of the name than how it sounds . I have seen parents who give their children bright "unique" names while they ignore the meaning . It is important that the child is given a good name that clearly indicates his lineage .

I am posting the link here follow the forbidden names and naming system in Islam .